Instead of constantly popping up examples of tens of marriages that did not work as excuses why you hesitate getting married, hundreds abound that are working.
Instead of saying am waiting for the right man you should be equipping yourself to be the right woman
No marriage is perfect because no single individual is. The phrase ‘waiting for the right man’ is a cliché that does not align with the realities in any marriage.
A man that never hit you before marriage may start doing so after marriage. A loving and generous boy friend may become uncaring and stingy. A great husband may be a terrible dad. A rich boyfriend can become a dead broke husband. In life just like in marriage their are no guarantees.
Just because you delay in getting married does not mean your marriage will be immuned from those things you try to avoid.
I hear some ladies say it’s not how long but how well. That’s so delusional. Who says marrying early is not marrying well.
I was in my late twenties when I proposed to yj and she was in her mid twenties. It’s not a perfect union but it is absolutely a very healthy one. You will never know until you try it. You must make up your mind to make it work. invest in up grading yourself as a wife in waiting not one waiting for the right guy.
The greatest gift in a marriage is not a beautiful wife, sex or children but companionship. Looks, sex and children will go but companionship is till that do us part. marriage is a good thing.